for women: do you prefer a guy to have long hair or short hair?

**DiyaC** · January 4th, 2009, 10:59 AM

I don't have any specific preferences. I am attracted to a man's overall personality, not his hair alone. My boyfriend has short hair now and he takes very good care of it. His hair is very shiny, thick, clean and healthy. If his hair was longer than mine, I wouldn't be too bothered so long as he maintains it the same way as he does now. I find him attractive whatever he does :-)

**Orchid** · January 4th, 2009, 11:06 AM

I'm not too picky with these things. I guess if it looks good, I prefer long hair on men. I love the way it feels and playing with it. I'm also a metalhead and most men in the scene have long hair, so I guess that's part of the reason I find it attractive.

I don't mind facial hair if it's nicely kept. Although if a man has a wonderful face, it's rather sad that he would cover it with facial hair. Body hair is tolerable in small amounts. I don't like my men to look like they are wearing carpet on their bodies. But a little hair is quite nice.

**NebraskaChick84** · January 4th, 2009, 11:14 AM

my DH buzzes his hair regularly so I wish he'd grow it out some.

as for body hair, it is pointless to speculate on how much body hair I would prefer my dh to have as he has what he was given and could hardly grow more or have it all fall out just according to my wishes.

**xeternalsilence** · January 4th, 2009, 11:15 AM

Originally Posted by Orchid

I'm also a metalhead and most men in the scene have long hair, so I guess that's part of the reason I find it attractive.

Same here

**Sissy** · January 4th, 2009, 11:21 AM

I prefer short hair on men. I also prefer them to be clean shaven... it's just my preference. My husband wears his hair short and does not grow facial hair so that's just what I like or love I should say

**angelthadiva** · January 4th, 2009, 11:22 AM

I prefer shorter hair on DH's head, and some facial hair. He has a neatly trimmed goatee, but he looks so cute with a neatly trimmed beard too. I prefer the beard, but he thinks it's too much work.

As for body hair, less is more!

**Chromis** · January 4th, 2009, 12:21 PM

I prefer intelligence to length or amount of hair.

**morguebabe** · January 4th, 2009, 12:40 PM

Long Hair.
No Facial hair at all.

I'm really not into shaved heads at all. I'd rather them have a 'normal' guy hair cut than no hair at all.

**frogette** · January 4th, 2009, 12:47 PM

I don't have any definite physical preferences, but generally speaking, I find longer hair a turn-on in men, unless the guy is also balding.
Long hair = great
Bald spot = fine
Long hair + bald spot = do not want!

**Deborah** · January 5th, 2009, 01:11 AM

I like short hair on men, and no beard or mustache. I do not like long hair on any man.

These two are things the man can easily change. Body hair seems to be in a completely different category. Each man grows whatever his body is programmed to grow, and I would never want him to alter this part of himself. It almost seems like asking him to grow an inch or two, as I like tall men. So I have no preference on this.