I don't usually wear hairsticks, I usually use pins (similar shape to amish pins but from the dollar store lol). Part of the reason is whenever I do use sticks, as I move my head around throughout the day, the bottom end of the sticks get under some of the nape hairs that are heading up towards the bun, where they get caught and pull. I unhook it, but it just keeps happening. It also happens with forks.

Anyone else have this problem? Any solutions?