Some quick history. I've been using cone-free conditioner for a while. It didn't make my hair shiny, but it didn't give me fly-aways either, and my hair was soft and I could use coconut oil with no ill effects. My mom found Aussie Cleanse and Mend on sale (which I used to love, when I had a lot of damaged hair) and bought it for me. It has Dimethicone in it. I ran out of my cone-free conditioner and started using the Aussie. Now my hair is soft, tangle-free, shiny, but lots and lots of fly-aways, and when I used coconut oil (even a little bit) it makes my hair look greasy.

So, my question is, does this mean my hair likes cones, or doesn't like cones?